Skip to product information
1 of 6

Self Love Ritual Incense — Spices & Flowers for Self-Acceptance | Incense Sticks

Self Love Ritual Incense — Spices & Flowers for Self-Acceptance | Incense Sticks

Regular price $24.95
Regular price Sale price $24.95
Sale Sold out
Shipping calculated at checkout.
Quality guarantee — tested & vetted by us
From small makers & short runs — never mass-produced
Trusted by 5,900+ customers across Europe
Reachable in person — real people, no bots

In stock

Ships within 3 business days

Tracking on every shipment.

Curated, never mass-produced

Every brand chosen personally.

Secure checkout

Shop with confidence — your trust matters to us.

Family-run business

Here for you with passion and heart.

PayPal Klarna Apple Pay Visa Mastercard American Express

Self-love has been flattened into something that sounds like buying yourself things. The ritual the maker attaches to this stick is considerably less comfortable and considerably more useful: honor your whole self, including the parts you would edit out.

Spices and flowers, hand-rolled onto a fruit-biomass base. Light it, turn your attention to your own worth, inhale welcoming self-acceptance and exhale releasing self-doubt, and let the aroma nourish rather than distract.

At a glance

  • Scent: spices & flowers — warm spice over a soft floral
  • For self-acceptance and compassion work
  • Approximately 60 minutes per stick — extinguish and relight for multiple burns
  • Fruit-biomass base instead of charcoal
  • Handmade, hand-rolled, and hand-packaged

How to use it

  • Light it and turn your attention to your own worth, without arguing with the premise.
  • Inhale self-acceptance; exhale self-doubt. Keep the breath slow enough to notice.
  • Let the aroma surround and nourish you rather than trying to concentrate on it.
  • Honor your entire being — strengths and imperfections both, with an open heart.
  • Keep the session short and repeat it. Five honest minutes daily outperforms one long attempt.

Choosing across the Ritual Incense line

Ritual Scent What it is worked for
Inner Strength Sandalwood & Roses Grounding and self-commitment
Self Love Spices & Flowers Self-acceptance and compassion
Shine White Lotus Flower Confidence and being seen
Empowerment Coffee & Sweet Vanilla Affirmation work
Purification Mystical Gardens Clearing a space
Energetic Cleanse Frankincense & Myrrh Clearing the air around you

✨ Temple Tip — include the parts you would edit

The version of this practice that fails is the one where you list what you like about yourself. The version that works includes at least one thing you would rather not have on the list, held without commentary. Self-acceptance that only covers the flattering half is not acceptance — it is a review.

Questions we get asked

How does it differ from Inner Strength?
Inner Strength is about capability and standing firm. Self Love is about worth without conditions attached. Different questions, and the incense line separates them deliberately.
What does it smell like?
Warm spice sitting over a soft floral — less sweet than a pure floral, less sharp than a pure spice.
How long does one stick burn?
Approximately 60 minutes. The sticks are designed to be extinguished and relit, so a single stick can carry several shorter sittings.
What makes this incense different?
It uses a fruit-biomass base rather than the charcoal base most incense is built on — an upcycling choice that reduces the charcoal in the product.
Is it hand-made?
Yes. Handmade, hand-rolled, and hand-packaged.
Do I need a special holder?
You need a heat-proof holder that catches ash and holds the stick steady. Anything that can tip or scorch is not suitable.

Care & safety: Burn in a heat-proof holder on a stable, non-flammable surface, within sight, away from drafts, curtains, and anything that can catch. Never leave burning incense unattended or within reach of children or pets. Ventilate the room during and after burning. Extinguish fully before leaving. California Proposition 65 warning: burning incense produces smoke and combustion by-products, including chemicals known to the State of California to cause cancer and reproductive harm. A ritual tool — no outcome is promised, and nothing here is medical, legal, or financial advice.

Where this sits: on our Incense Sticks & Cones shelf inside Sacred Smoke & Cleansing. For a quiet place to burn it, see how to set up an altar in a shared room.

The whole list. Not the flattering half. #TempleOfDesire

View full details

In short

Self Love Ritual Incense is a hand-rolled stick from Sacred Scents Sanctuary scented with spices and flowers - warm spice over a soft floral. It is rolled onto a fruit-biomass base instead of charcoal, handmade and hand-packaged, and burns for approximately 60 minutes with the option to extinguish and relight. The maker's practice for it is a breathing one: inhaling self-acceptance, exhaling self-doubt, and honoring strengths and imperfections alike. It costs $15. The maker recommends short repeated sessions rather than one long attempt, and it is one of six blends in the Ritual Incense line.

More than just products

At Temple of Desire you will not find generic mass-produced goods. Every product is deliberately curated, chosen out of our own practice and years of experience, or made by us. We only pick things we would use ourselves — honest, vetted, and held to a clear standard of quality and depth.

Our goal is not to sell as much as possible. It is to give you tools that genuinely stay with you.

What makes our products different

Clarity & focus - Products that support you instead of overwhelming you.

Quality you can feel - Chosen by people who practice themselves — not by trends.

Developed with depth - No surface. Substance, experience and real understanding.

Deliberately curated - Every product follows a clear idea — not a hype cycle.

Our community

Real people. Real rituals.

From our German community — @templeofdesire.de. Twenty years of practice, shared as it happens.