At a glance
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Worked for: peaceful separation, cooling attachment, dissolving business or romantic ties, emotional distance without conflict
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Two hand-poured beeswax figure candles — one Human, one Female, in your choice of ten colors
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A forged nail — for carving names and intentions into the candles
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Herbs selected for cooling feelings and dissolving attachment
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One consecrated spiritual oil for separation work
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Complete written instructions — written for practitioners of all levels
Candle details
| Detail |
Specification |
| Contents |
Two beeswax figure candles (Human and Female) |
| Height |
Approx. 7" (17.8 cm) each |
| Burn time |
Approx. 6–8 hours per candle |
| Material |
100% pure beeswax |
| Wick |
Cotton, lead-free |
| Fragrance |
Fragrance-free |
| Colors |
10 |
How to use it
Cleanse your space and settle yourself before you begin. Write your intention on a petition paper — be specific about the connection you want to cool rather than about the people involved.
Carve the names and intentions into the two figure candles with the forged nail, then dress both with the included oil.
Set the candles on a heat-safe dish with the petition paper underneath, and place them so they face away from one another. Sprinkle the herbs around the base.
Light them and let them burn while it is safe to do so, moving them a little further apart each time you work. When the spell is complete, dispose of the remains respectfully. Full instructions are included.
To go further: Cleansing clears what is left behind once the tie loosens; Breakthroughs helps when the situation feels stuck; Commitment is the counterpart if you later want to rebuild something. You will find them all in our Candle Spell Booster Packs collection.
Choose the color that aligns with your intention
| Color |
Works best for |
| Black |
Powerfully diminishing interest and creating strong indifference |
| White |
Cooling feelings gently, with no ill will on either side |
| Red |
Turning passionate interest into indifference and redirecting desire |
| Pink |
Softening romantic attachment and fading affection gently |
| Purple |
Dissolving spiritual attraction and soul-level fascination |
| Blue |
A peaceful parting that keeps communication civil for practical matters |
| Brown |
Reducing interest in shared ventures; smoothing legal dissolution |
| Orange |
Redirecting enthusiasm away from each other and toward new opportunities |
| Yellow |
Diminishing mental fascination and finding happiness in the separation |
| Green |
Making the parting financially favorable to you |
✨ Temple Tip
Separation work goes better when you are honest about what you actually want. If part of you is still hoping they come back, the spell is being asked to do two contradictory things at once. Sit with that first — then write the petition.
Questions & answers
What makes this different from a break up spell?
A break up kit is built to end a relationship quickly and decisively. This one works gradually: it cools interest and attachment on both sides so the parting happens quietly rather than in a confrontation.
Who are the two candles meant to represent?
The kit contains one Human figure candle and one Female figure candle, representing the two people in the connection. You carve names and identifying details into them with the included nail.
Which color should I choose?
Match the color to your intention rather than to the object — the table above lists what each of the ten is traditionally worked for. White is the all-purpose choice if you are unsure.
Is there anything I should know about burning the candles?
Never leave a burning candle unattended, keep it away from anything flammable, and burn it on a heat-safe surface out of reach of children and pets. The candles are 100% pure beeswax with lead-free cotton wicks and no added fragrance.
How fast does it ship?
Orders ship within 3 business days.
California Proposition 65 warning: Burning this product produces combustion by-products. Use in a well-ventilated space.
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