Collection: Love & Attraction

Love is four different errands, and the product tells you which one

Twenty-nine pieces sit on this page, from a $7.95 sage bundle to a $214.95 rose quartz obelisk — candle spell kits, refillable oil lamps, body oils, incense, one devotional pair, one crystal and one custom ritual written by hand. They are filed under a single word, and that word is doing too much work. Four different jobs hide inside “love,” and almost every disappointing purchase on a page like this comes from buying for one of them while meaning another.

Sorted by what they were actually made to do: attraction — drawing something toward you — covers the largest share, the Come To Me Oil at $10.00, the $11.95 Love Drawing 7-Day Candle, the Love Attraction Mist and the beeswax kits. Self-love is its own shelf and not a consolation prize: the Self Love Ritual Body Oil, the Self Love Ritual Incense, the $18.00 Love & Attraction Ritual Candle. Devotion — holding what already exists — is the two 16-ounce altar candles, Radha and Parvati, both $34.95. And ending it is the one nobody expects to find here: the $126.95 Deluxe Smooth Separation Candle Spell Kit, which is not a curse but a cooling — four figure candles, two for the parting and two for where each person goes next.

The color is the spell, not the decor

Five pieces on this page arrive in a choice of ten colors, and this is the single decision most likely to be made for the wrong reason. They are all hand-poured beeswax from the same maker: the $15.95 Love Spell Heart Taper, the $22.95 Libra Scales candle, the $43.95 Lovers Candle Spell Kit, the $50.95 Mermaid Magick kit and the separation kit. The color names the working. It is not a finish.

• Pink — romance on four of the five, but self-love on the Lovers kit. Same color, two different spells, depending on which box you are holding.
• Red — passion, and faster. Chosen when pink was meant more often than the reverse.
• Blue — reconciliation on the taper, the Libra candle and the Mermaid kit. This is the option people scroll past when repair, not attraction, is the honest goal. On the separation kit the same blue means a peaceful parting.
• Brown — grounding, and on the Heart Taper specifically fidelity: the only piece on the page that names staying rather than starting.
• White — blessing, and the safe answer when you are not certain. It is the traditional substitute for any color in the system.

Candle Color Meanings lays out the full system if you want to check a color before you commit to it, and How to Dress a Candle With Oil covers the step most kits assume you already know. The Heart Taper is worth a second look whatever your color: it carries eight hearts cast into one column, so a single $15.95 candle can be worked across four evenings rather than one.

What an hour of flame actually costs

Burn time is published for most of the candles here, which makes them comparable in a way crystals never are. The spread is wider than the price tags suggest.

• $11.95 — Love Drawing 7-Day Candle, pink glass, hand-dressed with rose, jasmine, chamomile, hibiscus and clove and topped with a rose quartz. Seven days of continuous burn puts it near seven cents an hour, the cheapest sustained flame on this page by a wide margin.
• $34.95 — Radha and Parvati altar candles, 16 oz, up to 168 hours: about twenty-one cents an hour, unscented and undyed, with the stones set into the wax.
• $18.00 — Love & Attraction Ritual Candle, 8 oz coconut-soy, up to 50 hours: about thirty-six cents, apple cinnamon, rose petals and a strawberry quartz.
• $28.95 — Rose Quartz Chakra Candle, 7.5 oz, up to 60 hours: about forty-eight cents. You are paying for the rose quartz and the full-moon-charged quartz point that come with it, and for a glass you keep.

The three refillable oil candles — Venus, Aphrodite and Libra, $25.95 for 3 oz up to $63.95 for 12 oz — break that math on purpose. A fill runs roughly 10 to 12 hours at the small size and 35 to 40 at the large, which looks expensive until you register that the price buys the lamp, not the burn. The bottle is refilled rather than replaced, the dried blossoms sit in the fuel so it reads as an object unlit, and the cotton wick is self-sustaining — no trimming, no tunneling, no wax left in the bottom. It is the only format here that is cheaper in year three than in year one.

Oils: anoint it, wear it, or both — and what an ounce costs

Six oils and one mist share this page and they are not interchangeable. Three of them are built to do double duty, and the per-ounce arithmetic is worth doing before you choose a size.

• Come To Me Oil, $10.00 — hibiscus and cinnamon chips in coconut oil, warm vanilla. A 0.36 oz spell oil for anointing candles, sigils and petition papers, which works out to about $28 an ounce. That is not expensive; it is simply not a body product, and it is used in drops.
• Rose Quartz Gemstone Body Oil, $10.00 / $24.00 — cherry blossom with genuine rose quartz in the bottle. The 3.4 oz size lands near $7 an ounce, the cheapest oil per ounce on the page, and a third less than the 1 oz bottle.
• Self Love Ritual Body Oil, $15.00 / $28.00 and Love Potion Ritual Body Oil, $15.95 / $28.95 — the 3.4 oz bottles cost roughly 45 percent less per ounce than the 1 oz travel size of the same formula. Love Potion is the only garnet on this page; Self Love is peach blossom and grapefruit over a coconut base.
• Love Attraction Mist, $10.00 — 2 oz of rose and jasmine with real flowers suspended in it. Water-based, for rooms and auras rather than skin, and the only piece here that leaves nothing behind.
• Aphrodite’s Love Spell Kit, $20.00 — a herbal blend and a 1/2 oz attraction oil that share a botanical language, rose and cinnamon in both. The closest thing to a starter set on the page.

If you have never dressed a candle or anointed anything, How to Make Anointing Oils explains what a carrier oil is doing and where skin sensitivity matters, and Spell Jar Recipes shows what the same botanicals do when they stay in a jar instead of going on a wick. More of both in Ritual Oils and Body & Anointing Oils.

Where the rose quartz actually is

Rose quartz is the reason most people arrive at a page like this, so it is worth being plain: there is exactly one loose stone here. The Rose Quartz Obelisk runs $110.95 to $214.95 depending on weight, polished in Brazil and cut flat so it stands unaided — a considered purchase, not an entry point. Everything else arrives with the stone built in: the $28.95 chakra candle, the $11.95 seven-day candle with a rose quartz set on top, the $10.00 body oil with crystals in the bottle, and the Radha altar candle, which carries rose quartz, malachite and angelite together.

So the cheapest rose quartz on this page is ten dollars of body oil, not a stone. If what you wanted was a stone to hold, the $29.95 Rose Quartz Healing Crystal Set — bracelet, tumbled stone and dowsing pendulum — sits elsewhere in the shop, and the wider Rose & Rose Quartz range collects the rest. Rose Quartz Meaning covers what the stone is traditionally used for, and Crystals for Love is the one to read first if you are shopping by stone rather than by format — it is candid about which pink “crystals” on the wider market are dyed glass.

The smoke, the incense and the timing

Two 4-inch white sage bundles sit at the bottom of the price list, both $7.95 and both worth distinguishing: Amor Floral is bound with pink rose petals and yellow sunflowers, warmth and lift, while the 7 Chakra Rose bundle carries rose petals dyed in the seven chakra colors and is built for balance rather than romance. White sage is a traditional medicine plant of Indigenous peoples and is best entered with that in mind — White Sage Smudging, Honestly sets out where it comes from, and What to Burn Instead of White Sage gives eight alternatives if you would rather not. How to Burn a Smudge Stick is the practical one: a 4-inch bundle gives eight to twelve sessions when it is put out properly rather than left to smolder.

For a longer, quieter smoke the hand-rolled sticks run about an hour each: Eternal Love and Self Love Ritual Incense at $24.95, and the Rose Palo Santo box of 30 at $57.95 — the only one on the page that states its stick count, which puts it near two dollars an hour of smoke. Rose opens and palo santo clears, so it does two jobs at once; Palo Santo vs Sage explains when that matters. If you share walls, Burning Incense in an Apartment is the honest guide to smoke alarms, and Incense Burners & Holders has the dish you will need either way.

Timing is the free variable. Friday and the planet Venus have carried love work for a very long time, which is why Venus and Aphrodite both appear here, and why the Libra pieces belong on a love page at all — Libra is ruled by Venus, and Libra season runs September 23 to October 22. Best Time for a Spell covers moon, day and hour together, Libra Season 2026 covers the window itself, and Venus Retrograde 2026 is worth checking before you start anything long, because the traditional advice is to repair during it and launch after it.

What love work can honestly do

This matters more on a love page than anywhere else in the shop, so it will not be buried. Nothing sold here can make a specific person want you, and no honest practitioner will tell you otherwise. Love Spells and Consent is the piece to read before you spend anything — it sets out the difference between work aimed at another person’s will and work aimed at your own clarity, availability and nerve, and why the second kind is the one that tends to change anything. Love Drawing Candle takes the same question into the practical: how to work a drawing candle when you are not sure what you actually want, which is the situation most people are in.

If the honest job is repair rather than attraction, The No Contact Rule as a Ritual and Cord Cutting Ritual cover the two halves of that, and Karmic Relationship: Signs and Meaning and Soulmate vs Twin Flame untangle the vocabulary people arrive with. For the self-love end, Heart Chakra is the anatomy of what the candles and oils on this page keep referring to.

The one made-to-measure piece here is Leif Daniel’s $197.00 Personal Ritual, Made to Measure — a ritual written for one situation rather than pulled off a shelf. Before you buy any custom work anywhere, How Much Does a Spell Cost? and How to Spot a Fake Spell Caster are worth the ten minutes, and What to Expect When Someone Performs a Ritual for You describes what the process should feel like from your side. Both of Leif’s services sit in Rituals by Leif Daniel.

And nothing on this page treats a condition or guarantees an outcome. These are traditional practices and well-made objects. If a relationship or a loss is weighing on you in a way that is not lifting, that is worth talking through with someone qualified — a candle is a reasonable companion to that, never a substitute for it.

Frequently asked questions

What crystal is best for attracting love?

Rose quartz is the traditional answer and has been for centuries — it is the stone associated with the heart, with self-compassion and with love that is offered rather than demanded. On this page it arrives in four different formats: the $110.95 to $214.95 polished obelisk, the $28.95 Rose Quartz Chakra Candle, the $10.00 Rose Quartz Gemstone Body Oil with crystals in the bottle, and the $11.95 Love Drawing 7-Day Candle, which has one set on top of the wax. Garnet is the other stone in play, worked for passion rather than tenderness, and it appears here only in the Love Potion Ritual Body Oil. If you want a stone you can hold rather than a stone inside something else, the $29.95 Rose Quartz Healing Crystal Set elsewhere in the shop is the cheaper route in.

What color candle should I use for a love spell?

Pink for romance and affection, red for passion and urgency, blue for reconciliation after a rift, brown for fidelity and staying power, and white when you are not sure — white is the traditional substitute for any color in the system. Five pieces on this page come in all ten colors, and the color is the working rather than the finish. One thing worth catching: on the Lovers Candle Spell Kit, pink means self-love rather than romance, while on the taper, the Libra candle and the Mermaid kit it means romance. Read the option name, not the swatch.

Do love spells actually work, and is it wrong to aim one at a specific person?

Nothing sold here can make a particular person want you, and anyone promising that is selling you something else. The traditional distinction is between work aimed at another person’s will and work aimed at your own — your clarity about what you want, your availability to it, your nerve in asking for it. The second kind is what most of the pieces on this page are actually built for, and it is the kind that tends to change something, because the thing it acts on is the thing you control. Our article Love Spells and Consent goes through the question properly, including what practitioners in several traditions consider off-limits.

What is the difference between an attraction oil and a body oil?

Format and dose. The $10.00 Come To Me Oil is a 0.36 oz spell oil: it is used in drops to anoint candles, petition papers and ritual tools, which is why it works out near $28 an ounce and why that is not the relevant number. The body oils — Self Love, Love Potion and Rose Quartz — come in 1 oz and 3.4 oz bottles built to go on skin, and all three double as anointing oils, so one purchase covers both uses. If you plan to wear it as well as work with it, the 3.4 oz bottles cost roughly 45 percent less per ounce than the travel sizes of the same formula.

I want to work on self-love, not romance. What is here for that?

Four pieces are built for it specifically. The Self Love Ritual Body Oil ($15.00 / $28.00) is peach blossom and grapefruit with rose quartz, made as a three-minute daily practice rather than an event. The Self Love Ritual Incense ($24.95) burns about an hour a stick and attaches a deliberately uncomfortable instruction to it — honor the parts of yourself you would edit out. The $18.00 Love & Attraction Ritual Candle carries a strawberry quartz and works for either job. And on the Lovers Candle Spell Kit, the pink option is the self-love option. Our Heart Chakra guide is the background reading.

Is there anything here for ending a relationship rather than starting one?

Yes, and it is the piece most people do not expect to find in a love collection. The $126.95 Deluxe Smooth Separation Candle Spell Kit is worked to let attachment cool naturally rather than to force a break with conflict: four beeswax figure candles — two for the couple parting, two for where each person goes afterward — plus two oils and written instructions. The color choice names the kind of parting you want, from peaceful to protected to friendly. A simpler two-candle version of the same kit is available elsewhere in the shop at $66.95. For the work that comes after, our Cord Cutting Ritual and No Contact Rule pieces are the practical ones.

When is the best time to do a love ritual?

Friday is the traditional day, because it belongs to Venus, and a waxing or full moon is the traditional phase for drawing something toward you rather than releasing it. Libra season, September 23 to October 22, is the other window people use for partnership work, since Libra is ruled by Venus — which is why both Libra pieces on this page belong on a love page at all. The one period to check before starting anything long is Venus retrograde, where the traditional advice is to use it for repair and reflection and to launch new work after it. That said, the day you will actually sit down and do it beats the perfect day you will not.

Which single piece should I start with?

For attraction, the $11.95 Love Drawing 7-Day Candle — seven days of continuous burn works out near seven cents an hour, the cheapest sustained flame here, and it arrives already dressed with rose, jasmine, chamomile, hibiscus and clove. For self-love, the $15.00 Self Love Ritual Body Oil, because it asks for three minutes a day rather than an evening. For a first spell with instructions in the box, the $20.00 Aphrodite’s Love Spell Kit or the $43.95 Lovers Candle Spell Kit. And for devotion to something that already exists, one of the $34.95 altar candles, which give up to 168 hours for about twenty-one cents an hour.